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Recovery: Life After Stroke

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Driving after Stroke

Driving is often a major concern after a stroke. It’s not unusual for you to want to drive, as your ability to get around is important. And, while safety is always an issue for anyone when driving, it is particularly important after stroke, because any injuries to your brain may change the way you think and respond behind the wheel.

Will You Be Able to Drive?

The following steps can help you find the right answer:

Talk to your doctor and/or occupational therapist. They can tell you about the effects of your stroke and whether they might impair your ability to drive. It’s important to note that driving against your doctor’s advice can be dangerous and may be illegal. In some cases, your doctor may have the legal responsibility to notify your state that you have been advised not to drive.

  • Contact your State Department of Motor Vehicles. Ask for the Office of Driver Safety and find out what requirements apply to people who have had a stroke.
     
  • Enroll in a Driver’s Training Program. For a fee, you may receive driving assessment, classroom instruction and suggestions for modifying your vehicle (if necessary).
  • See below for a list of Colorado agencies offering driver's assessment.

Have your driving tested by a professional, such as a driver rehabilitation specialist.
 

Signs of Unsafe Driving

You may be unaware of potential driving difficulties after your stroke. The following warning signs are indications of unsafe driving. If you experience any of these signs, you should not drive until you can consult with your doctor or have your driving tested by a qualified professional.

  • Driving too fast or too slow for road conditions or posted speeds.
  • Difficulty observing signs or signals.
  • Making slow or poor distance decisions.
  • Frustration or confusion.
  • Getting lost often, even in familiar areas.
  • Having accidents or close calls.
  • Drifting across lane markings into other lanes

Adaptive Driving Programs:

Center for Neurorehabiitiaton Services
Adaptive Driving Program, with Christy Dittmar MS, OTR, CDRS (Certified Driving Rehabilitation Specialist)
1045 Robertson St.
Fort Collins, CO  80524 
970-493-6667
www.brainrecov.com  

“Behind the Wheel”
Spalding Rehabilitation Hospital
900 Potomac St.
Aurora, CO 80011
303-363-5321
www.SpaldingRehab.com

Master Drive of Colorado Springs
3280 E. Woodmen Rd.
Colorado Springs, CO 80920
719-260-0999
fax: 719-260-9676
www.masterdrive.com

Master Drive of Denver, Inc.
15659 E. Hinsdale Dr.
Englewood, CO 80112
303-627-4447
fax: 303-627-6474
www.masterdrive.com

Master Drive of Ft. Collins and Loveland areas
5609 Goldco Dr.
Loveland, CO 80538
970-593-6362
fax: 970-593-6369
www.masterdrive.com


Intimacy and Sex after Stroke

Sex is a sensitive subject for many patients and their partners. The following information can help answer some key questions for those who prefer not to discuss these issues openly. It is important to realize that many people with varying levels of disability continue to enjoy active and satisfying sexual relations after stroke.

Common Fears

You or your partner may have unspoken fears and may avoid intimate encounters after your stroke. These may include:

  • Fear of having another stroke during sex - The chance that another stroke will occur during lovemaking is very unlikely. However, it is normal for your heart to beat faster and for you to breathe faster during intercourse. The amount of physical energy needed to make love is similar to the energy needed to walk up or down one or two flights of stairs. Talk to your doctor if you are concerned about health risks caused by sexual intercourse.
     
  • Fear of partner rejection - You may wonder if your partner is “turned off” by your appearance since your stroke. However, it’s more likely that your partner is afraid that sexual intercourse will cause you physical pain. Both you and your partner will need time to adjust to the changes caused by the stroke. It’s important to talk openly with your partner about feelings and fears; if this is difficult, you may want to consider seeking sexual counseling.
     
  • Fear of being unable to perform - Occasionally, men and women experience a lack of interest in sex after stroke. This may be due to depression, concern over physical appearance, medications, etc. Impotence in males after a stroke may be due to medical or psychological problems. There are, however, proven treatments available for male impotence that you can discuss with your doctor.
     
  • The Role of Depression - Depression can interfere with your desire to be intimate. The symptoms of depression include difficulty sleeping and eating, feeling tired and having little energy, sadness, a sad outlook and loss of interest in how one looks. If you are depressed, you may feel unattractive to your partner and not interested in giving or receiving affection. The good news is that while depression is common, it is treatable. Here are some options you may want to consider if you are suffering from depression:
     
    • Find someone to listen and understand - Counseling sessions or discussions with your doctor or nurse can prove very effective; participating in a local stroke support group is also beneficial.
       
    • Anti-depressant medications - These can help in treating certain kinds of depression, but must be prescribed by a doctor.
       
  • Medications - Some medications such as tranquilizers, sleeping pills, high blood pressure medicine, anti-depressants and antihistamines can reduce sexual ability and even cause impotence. If you suspect that a medication may be causing a change in your sexual performance, talk to your doctor. Remember – never stop taking a medication without consulting your physician first!
     
  • Birth Control - Taking birth control pills can cause a potential increase in the risk of stroke. Be sure to consult your physician before taking any birth control medication.
     
  • Role Changes - If a spouse or loved one is also your caretaker and spends a lot of time helping you with your physical needs, you may find that this interferes with feelings of intimacy and sexual attraction. Finding someone to help provide some of the physical care can promote a more comfortable relationship.

Helpful Guidelines for Life After Stroke

Safety First

Be careful as you try tasks and activities at home. Make sure all your work areas are safe and well organized and that you have all the supplies you need. If you have a weak arm or leg, be sure it is well protected during various tasks. Most importantly, take your time. Moving too fast, handling too many things at one time or trying to cope with distractions can lead to accidents.

Accepting Help

Don’t forget that friends and family can help. Living after a stroke requires teamwork, planning and hard work. Your primary caregiver, friends and other family members are important members of your team. Like you, they want to see your condition continually improve.

Stay Positive

Overall, your outlook and effort will affect your recovery more than anything. Don’t quit! If a task or skill is difficult on the first try, keep practicing and be creative in solving problems as your challenge yourself to become more and more independent.

Exercise

Walking, bending and stretching are forms of exercise that can help strengthen your body and keep it flexible, all of which contribute to your independence and quality of life. If approved by your physician, mild exercise such as a short walk or even light housekeeping should be undertaken daily. Stretching exercises, such as extending the arms or bending the torso, may also be recommended. Moving weakened or paralyzed parts can be done while seated or lying down. Your physical and/or occupational therapists may also develop a specialized exercise program for special problems (such as spasticity, low endurance or inability to sit up from a lying position).

Be Prepared

You can maintain the skills you have gained and continue to improve if you and your caregiver are prepared and supported in your efforts. Work with your rehabilitation team before and after you return home to:

  • Know what you can and cannot do.
  • Become as independent as possible.
  • Get help to maintain skills and learn new ones.
  • Adapt your home to make care as easy and safe as possible.
  • Observe some therapy sessions.
  • Educate yourself about the effects of stroke through available resources.
  • Clearly understand your doctors’ instructions, medication management and when and who to call for help
  • Seek support from others.
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Phone: (303) 597-1724, Fax: (303) 788-7666, E-mail: NPyle@TheCNI.org
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